Question of the day...

Are friends our true soulmates and men are here to just pass the time??

A wise friend of mine posed this question today and it made me think. But at the end of the day I think that a friend is a soulmate and the person that we all will one day spend our lives with (or a good portion, these days) should be our soulmate who is also our friend as well. Someone who shares our love, passion but also hopes and dreams. Someone who knows and keeps are deepest and darkest secrets just like a true friend but also who at the end of the day sees into our soul and loves us just for being ourselves.... and I do think with all of that explaining I just talked myself in a circle and defeated the question, is this possible today? Can we find men who will be our friends, our soul mates, and who want us for more than to be a "bust it baby". I know it's possible, because someone out there is having a happy ending but so many good women are losing hope, while bust it babies run wild.